Strength in Spring

Today is the first day of Spring. For me it symbolizes hope and growth, a new day.

I have managed to go through the French e-mails from my children’s teachers to source some academic activities and guides. I spent a few hours setting up online live music lessons. I am beginning to feel organized.

During these early days of this new form of living, I chose to teach my kids some life skills. Much to my surprise, both of them were eager to take part in household activities. It is based on a reward system, of course, which makes it a fun game. Depending on how their routine and behaviour plays out in a given day, a reward sticker is placed on their individual calendar. After seven stickers, the reward is given. As a result, the kids make their own beds and lunch. As long as the meals and snacks are healthy, I allow them to experiment with different foods. I love seeing their own creations and tastes! They also clean up after meals and do their own laundry, fold it and put it away. Together we clean the house.

Given that I am a single parent in this new situation, I have discovered how important time for myself is. Teaching my children a bit of independence allows me a few moments to recharge throughout the day. I have also been reminded how important vigorous exercise is for my well-being. I have made a point of exercising regularly at home, be it on a treadmill, on a yoga mat, with weights or shadow boxing (can’t forget Muay Thai training!).

It’s not all about routine and work. Playtime is equally important. We spend several hours each day outdoors walking the dog. My kids love exploring new remote places in search of adventure. We collect rocks, driftwood and sea shells for various art projects. They may spend hours at a running spring brook floating pieces of bark down the stream with screams of excitement as they race them on. I am now very thankful for their love of nature!